Strengthening Relationships + Unifying Couples
Committed + Connected is all about improving your family tree, starting with you.
No matter what your relationship examples have been, you can have the thriving, passionate, Christ-centered marriage you desire. With our experience-inspired principles and your commitment to the work, you can build a strong relationship and break the chains that threaten to keep you stuck.
Born and raised in sunny California, we met and fell in love at the University of Southern California before getting married in 2017. Now, with 5 years of marriage under our belts, we are raising three lively kids who serve as daily reminders that the health of our marriage will directly impact future generations.
We are a purpose-driven Christian couple that has experienced firsthand the return that comes from intentionally investing in our relationship. We saw many examples growing up of what not to do in marriage, and thankfully while seriously dating, we saw many examples of what to do to have a life-long, joy-filled partnership.
In addition to the titles of Spouse and Parent, we have both been Coach in multiple arenas for over 23 years combined, including relationships, leadership, business, and athletics. We’re passionate about growth, development, and seeing forward progress in ourselves and others.
Meet Neil + Kiara
Thoughts From Another Couple
"Before coaching with Neil and Kiara, we were going in two separate directions in several areas. During our time coaching together, they created a safe space for us to share our vulnerabilities while helping us navigate through difficult conversations and relationship dynamics. Neil and Kiara taught us how to see challenges as opportunities, make decisions together based on shared values, and serve each other while growing ourselves. Now, we feel empowered and refocused, moving toward unified goals together with much more support, encouragement, and laughter."
Nathan + Catie Allison
We Help Strengthen Your Relationship Foundation
The excitement of falling in love with your life partner is unparalleled. You feel butterflies flutter every time you see their name on your phone and you eagerly anticipate the next time you get to be together. Your eyes sparkle with passion while your soul feels complete - like you’ve found your other half. If you could bottle up that feeling and keep it forever, you would. It’s just that good. That’s the fun side of love.
The other side of love is often filled with uncertainty. Though you try to stay present and live in the moment, that pesky voice of fear keeps whispering all of the “what if’s” you’re unsure of how to handle like…
What if this feeling is too good to be true?
What if our careers take us in different directions?
What if we grow apart as the years go on?
What if we repeat what has happened in our pasts?
Though your feelings of love and fear are interlocked, knowing how to intentionally deepen your love while processing your fears is critical to the strength of your relationship.
If unattended to over time, the seasons and storms of life can slowly erode the foundation of your relationship, leaving your union unstable and vulnerable. However, your future together can be secure by intentionally building your connection on rock-solid principles.
We help you solidify the foundation of your partnership so whether sunshine or thunderstorms, you will be hand-in-hand while your union stands firm.